by People ask this like love has rules, limits, or warning signs we’re supposed to follow. But some hearts were never designed to love in small portions. Some of us feel everything intensely—care deeply, give fully, and hold on even when it hurts.
Does that make us wrong?
Does loving with our whole chest count as a mistake?
Not really.
What feels like an “error” isn’t the love you give—it’s the person you gave it to. When someone can’t match your effort, your loyalty starts to look like a flaw. When someone isn’t ready for your depth, they’ll say you’re “too emotional,” “too soft,” “too attached.”
But that’s not your failure.
That’s their distance.
Loving deeply isn’t a weakness.
It means you’re real in a world full of guarded hearts. It means you still believe in connection, even after life gives you reasons to doubt it.
The truth is simple:
Loving too much isn’t the mistake.
Loving someone who doesn’t know what to do with that love is.
One day, the right person will look at your intensity and call it “home.”
